Thanks to everyone for their congratulations, now you know when my birthday do not go around remembering if I get to live another year squashed keys on a computer (and if you too).
Now I'm going to get in on the subject that I treat hot today:
all try to be optimistic from time to time, of course, some more often than others, but it is recognized that most did not last long time and this time is reduced to a few hours after something good happens to us.
Amazingly enough people to which love to be pessimistic and see their pessimism as a sign of black humor or whatever. I have no problem with jokes of those from time to time but there are people that the attitude toward life becomes his way of being.
What's my problem with these people? My problem is that attitudes are contagious. I do not deny it, I put an example: when someone yawns in the company of a certain number of people who are close enough or is living with the person at that moment, in less than ten seconds half of that group and yawned. In the same way when someone gets a laugh like crazy with joy is inevitable feel at least a vague shadow of happiness.
Returning to the subject: The problem to have these attitudes is that they do not bring anything good because of our personalities make them return the impending tragedy as part of our lives, we become addicted to them and even we tend to attract and even create them.
"Nobody would dare to create a tragedy must be thinking now, but really all we create dramas in our lives, perhaps not consciously, but either we do.
All our body is controlled by the brain and this is like the genie of the lamp of Aladdin Don: ask, and you are given. If you're droning on with that want to buy ... a specific brand of car (to take an ejemlpo) empiesa to see this car everywhere (you passed them) and this is because our brain searches every opportunity to fulfill your wishes, is open to all options concerning the desire and unconsciously always walks the road looking for it.
Unfortunately, the genie of the lamp fulfills all desires abolute you ask, but tell a joke or playing. and now tell how many of you have done the following statements: "I am that idiot!" "But that asshole!" "Definitely not my forte," "no good at this," etc. Declaring
lamp are asking that our wish come true, and as good performers is seeking all possible options to become more morons, idiots, useless and stupid. The same goes
pessimism: "Everyone is against me" these things always happen to me my "" bla bla dubidubidubidubi "what do you think? we really do! (Magic, right?)
Generally, these people pessimistic defends (excuse, as it were) saying they are not pessimistic ... are "realistic." And confuse optimism (a positive mental attitude) and lack of perspective and practical purpose.
Of course, optimism must be defined before, because there are "optimistic" that exactly meet the definition above:
Being optimistic is not close our eyes to the bad things and pretend everything is perfect. Being optimistic is to see at least half a good side of things ... and from there ... push yourself to not getting stuck in an unpleasant feeling.
if all we changed the way we see things we do not like and seeing a positive side and potentially profitable for our lives most likely the world would change radically towards a more fruitful.
now up to us to change our mindset to not continue this vicious cycle of tragedy.
thanks for reading, do not stay on the concept ... Take him to practice!
PS: comment a lot to see if it creates debate (take this into account for all the posts to publish)
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